Please can someone help?
Dad has dementia and I have just discovered that he has been hiding really important mail eg DVLA, etc since last year.
I have temporary respite just now as we are snowed in but he keeps phoning me up DEMANDING rather nastily, that I bring this and that plus he now wants to do all his paperwork.
I'm not kidding but there are stacks of things to go through, some pretty complicated and I have no idea how to do half of it eg tax.
The thing is that an Independent Advocate has been telling him he has the capacity to manage his own affairs but I know from looking after him that he can't. Receipts have been hidden/destroyed when he pooped in a bag in the cupboard.
I have a tiny baby, a little one with special needs too but find I am being torn in every direction.
Where do I start?
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wantslotsofbabies · 24/01/2008 18:38
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