Our son is 19,severely mentally and physically disabled and doubly incontinent-horrendous bowel problems,chronic diahhorea especially in the middle of the night.DH also has chronic physical and mental disabilities due to a brain tumour and resultant MRSA following surgery.
My physical and mental health are at a low ebb and I have been treated for depression on and off for years.Part of the reason is that we live in a tiny house with a tiny upstairs bathroom and toilet,and I have struggled with my son for so long with very little respite,plus my husband and a 17 year old dd who is lovely but 17!
I work fulltime and are always just below for the threshold for any financial support.
However now social services are going to send someone round tomorrow to see the feasiblity of a downstairs extension including bedroom and shower room.
My social worker has said they will just want to turn our backroom into a bedroom.
This will be a disaster because its the only room we use for study,eating and also sons wheelchair is stored there.But they will opt for the cheapest way of doing this. <br /> Any suggestions about what to say to get this extension without compromising my backroom which will only create more stress if taken up by my son
s bedroom? Thanks so much.
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time4me · 23/10/2007 11:56
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