Here's a moral dilemma for you to ponder...
We want to move house this year. We have some great options - we want to move to somewhere we will stay for the whole of the dcs' childhood hopefully, so we are looking at both primary and secondary schools. There are some excellent ones in the aresa we are looking at.
However...
My mum is in her 60s and is agoraphobic. She will go out, but not on her own. She gave up work 2 yrs ago and doesn't really go ut much in the day any more unless I take her shopping. She goes to a big church but they don't have any day groups. She's very proud and perfectly capable, apart from the agoraphobia. Most of her acquaintances don't even know she has it. She can drive, but again not on her own. She has told us that she really would like us to move to being within a taxi ride of where she lives.
However...
The schools round where she lives are really not that great and we don't really like the area anyway.
My gut feeling is that we can't sacrifice the dcs' opportunities in order to be a taxi ride away from her. The areas we like are about a 30 min car drive away. Is this being selfish? What do you think? What would you do?
Offloading moral dilemmas onto other people is great! Seriously, I'd love any honest thoughts. We are hoping to narrow down our choices of where to move to in the next week.
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Moral dilemma re. agoraphobic mum and moving house
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roseylea · 04/02/2007 10:24
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