Dd1 has Aspergers syndrome and dyspraxia, she is sociable but likes to play her own games (be in charge). Now she's 6 the other children have got fed up with her as she doesn't always want to play by there rules and can't run fast due to low muscle tone. She's now noticing that no one wants to play with her , she says no one wants her on their team or in their club as she can't run fast enough and falls over . All of the children in her year group are a member of this club (that one of the boys has created) and they all tell her she's the only one not allowed in as she's too slow.
The school are aware of dd's needs and they know she often plays on her own or around adults. Should i talk to her teacher about how dd1 is feeling (sad) or do we just need to except this is the way its going to be due to her special needs?
Dd1 is doing well at school (a year ahead of her age group) but i worry that she will get so upset about not having friends that it will effect her progress.
We are thinking of moving her to another school for other reasons and i know this will not solve the problem (dd1 will always be different) and i'm worried that moving her to another school could even make things worse.
What can i do to help her? I don't want her to be lonely all the way through school.
We are waiting to get help from a occupational therapist to build up her muscle tone (so she will be able to run a little bit faster) but this could take months (even years).
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How can i help dd1, being left out at school.
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Marne · 31/03/2010 18:13
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