DS (7) was being bullied last term by some of the boys in his class. I spoke to his teacher who adressed the boys concerned. DS was then allowed to play but the game was throw the ball in DS face. I went back & spoke to the teacher & the boys involved were spoken to and missed a play time. I had hoped this (& the Christmas break) would put an end to it. I was wrong. It has started again.
When I spoke to the teacher about it before, she said that DS had been withdrawn in class for a number of weeks and had thought it might be down to a medication change. DS is ADHD but his meds haven't been changed since September so I think the being withdrawn was down to the bullying.
DS was really looking forward to going back after Christmas as he loves school but told me last night that he was sad with himself as he had tried to kick another child. When asked, DS said that the boys would only let DS play if he was 'on' all the time and kept changing the rules to make him lose. There were a few other things, ehich while all low level, add up together. DS said he chased boy A (who appears to be the ring leader) when to try and kick him as he was upset. DS recognises that he shouldn't have tried to kick boy A - that's what started the converation as DS doesnt usually talk about school other than 'fine' when asked.
I had a good chat with DS and it seems that child A has been trying to belittle DS and exclude him (although only when others are around) to the point where DS has said he wants to stay in every play time & read a book rather than go out and play.
I know it doesnt seem much but it is really starting to affect DS - he has started having accidents at night since returning to school.
I've asked DS's teacher to call me. What can I expect from the school interms of support & dealing with this seeing as 'talking' to the boys involved hasn't worked?
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Fr0ggy · 13/01/2016 12:51
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