harassment from ex husband and gf

[jlk1984]

Hi, I'm divorced with a 4 yr old. Myself and my ex husband have an equal parenting agreement for our son, this is not a court arrangement order it is our own mutual agreement. It has worked fairly well over the past year, however him and his new gf are constantly harassing me by sending me intimidating, bullying and passive aggressive messages about my parenting and also interfering with my new relationship. I've now blocked her but don't know what to do about my ex.I've told him we should go to mediation which he's not interested in doing, however I'm really at a loss as to where to go from here. The arrangement does work for my child at the moment however I can't carry on living my life with constant dramas from them both, I just want to be happy in my new relationship. Pls can anyone advice aside from mediation and going to court for an arrangement order, what can I do?! Thanks!

[SolidGoldBrass]

Have a chat to Women's Aid, they can offer help and support. Also, block contact with XH as much as possible. Get an email address via Hotmail or Gmail or something, that's just for him, and only to be used for discussing parenting arrangments ie drop off times etc. If he continues to harass you or bully you, have a word with the police DV unit, who will speak to him and, if need be, take action against him.
And remember that his opinion of your parenting doesn't matter.