Ds3 (9) came home and casually dropped into the conversation that several children in his class are calling him fat. He isn't fat, imo, but he is tall for his age and 'well-built' or 'stocky', like ds2, who is now over 6' and muscular without an ounce of fat on him. Ds1 was always fairly lean (and now also over 6')!
None of the dc have tended to come back with info about who said what to them and I don't think I can recall ever having to intervene with regard to their relationships at school. I don't think ds3 would have mentioned it at all, if it wasn't bothering him.
I suppose it is because of this, that I am taking more notice, rather than dismissing it as classroom banter. It seems to be an ongoing niggle, and largely the same two children periodically doing the name-calling, usually when they get changed for P.E., I think. Otherwise, he is usually v happy at school, and a sociable little boy, who I don't think is inclined to make personal insults to others, which is why I feel so aggrieved on his behalf!
I don't want to blow this up out of all proportion, but wonder if I should mention it to his teacher?
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MrsRuffdiamond · 23/04/2014 18:00
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