I've just had a phone call from a teacher at my son's school asking me if had told us anything about an incident that happened while he was at school today. He hadn't. It turns out that a bigger child but in the same year (year 9) thought it would be a fun idea to pull my son's trousers down in the middle of the playground in front of everyone. My son is a sensitive chap and also incredibly skinny and found this extremely embarrassing and ended up in tears. Another child alerted a teacher who took my son to one side and calmed him down and reassured him that this was not acceptable behaviour by the other boy. This teacher has rung me this evening to explain all this and told me that the other boy is going to be in isolation tomorrow and then he will excluded because of this incident. The school view this as a serious assault in another pupil.
My poor son has now dissolved into tears again which has set me off and I just feel so angry and upset that this has happened. I was bullied myself at school and remember how isolated and worthless it made me feel. I'm glad the school are taking a serious approach to this, but I am worried that once the exclusion is over, this could have repercussions for my son in terms of further bullying.
I'm not really sure why I am writing this but I just felt I needed to share it. I hope that he never has to endure the tormenting i suffered at school and I think perhaps that is why I am so upset on his behalf as seeing him so distressed has brought it all back to me. I'm also a bit worried that he didn't say anything until the school rang to inform us. I've always encouraged both DC to tell us if anything is worrying them.
Anyway, I think that has made me feel a bit better.
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AtticusMcPlatypus · 16/12/2013 20:45
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