I am slightly cross-posting from mental health, as we have other problems, but I wanted to ask about the bullying issue on this board, too.
My 7 year old, in year 2, claims she is being bullied. She says the children at school are 'mean' to her.
I have met with teachers, assistants and playground wardens. All they said was that DD goes on the 'friendship bench' (where kids go when they have no one to play with) because my DD is actually quite bossy, and goes into a sulk when other children don't do exactly what she wants to do. I have seen this behaviour, and not at all encouraged it, but how much are parents meant to interfere with children playing together?
Today we went to an ice skating party with her classmates. DD was scared of the ice. Some other children offered to help. Rather than politely refuse, DD screamed "NO!!!!" at the top of her voice. It was shocking. I apologised on her behalf as DD was clearly too upset to apologise. The little girl looked very shocked. I can't imagine this girl shouting at DD that way.
Can I really question this bullying that my child is claiming is going on? Were the children nice today because I was there to see what happened? Or does DD isolate herself the way she did today, then come home crying that the other children are being "mean" to her? If a child is sulking on a bench and scream "NO!!!" when you approach her, surely of course no one will want to play with her.
ARGH. I am at my wits end. Don't know what to think or do.
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Is my DD being bullied or is she paranoid?
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marykat2004 · 08/01/2012 21:41
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