I hope it is okay to post this in this section as it is a pretty minor problem compared to most of the ones on here and I really would like some sensible advice.
My oldest child is DS1 aged 7 in year three. He has not wanted to go back to school this morning (following half term) cos he says a boy in the year above is calling him names when they play football.
This child is in DS1's mixed class and was a bit unpleasant to him in year one when they were also in the same class - giving him wedgies etc - so my heart did sink a bit when DS1 said this to me.
I told him to ignore everything that this kid says and the fact that my son sometimes cries is the reaction the other kid is looking for. So I said walk away, pretend not to care and he will soon get bored.
Anyway school was ok today after all the fuss spoiling half term but tonight I have dropped DS1 off at his club and literally the first thing that happened as we arrived was another boy (not the one from school) running up to DS1 and saying a teasing comment (too pathetic to repeat) over and over again. Ds1 was flustered but not overly upset, I have left him there happily playing.
However I myself am fuming. I know I am over reacting but it made me so angry. With him being my eldest I have never dealt with this kind of thing before, and really need some advice. I hate the thought of him being 'got at' regularly, my older sister was bullied and I would say even now it still has a lasting effect.
I drove home thinking up all sorts of clever put downs and also debating whether to tell DS1 to give both boys a thump as they are both smaller than him, which I know would be plain silly.
What is the best approach? Tell him to ignore it and see how it goes? Suggest he answers back? Thing is that he has had articulation difficulties in the past so he would never win a verbal argument, he just can't get the words out properly.
Thanks if you have read this far and any advice so appreciated.
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muriel76 · 01/11/2010 18:54
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