dd was 2 at the end of March - loves breastfeeding and so do I. Has always fallen asleep at the breast and never slept well but in the last couple of month has started increasing the night wake ups (to 5 or 6) and also sits up and demands 'mi-mi'. I've been so tired I've just been giving in but she also has cerebral palsy and the days are incredibly hard work so I'm at the point where something had to give.
Last night I explained that she could have mi-mi before we go to bed but not in bed and that mi-mi was all gone until the morning. She definatively understood and last night cried for about 30 mins (with me cuddling her and her asking for 'just a little bit') - she then gave up and went to sleep. She was up an hour later and then slept till 6am which for her was pretty amazing.
Today I let her have BM whenever she wanted and also explained a lot again about what would happen at bedtime. Again she has mi-mi downstairs before bed and cheerfully said 'later mi-mi, see mi-mi morning'. Tonight however she had a massive flailing tantrum for 40 mins- I couldn't touch her. Made herself gag on phlegm etc. Finally she stopped and told me she had a headache so I got her some calpol and a drink of water - she then lay on my chest and about 10 mins later was asleep. I am now feeling sick to the core that she will wake up again soon - it breaks my heart to see her so upset.
I need reassurance that things will get better - has anyone else been in this position? Also she will be ok without BM over-night won't she? I am not stopping her by day but I need to get the point where she can stay at my mums or dh can help out more at night as the moment I can't cope with her demands night and day. I love breastfeeding and really don't want to stop but have finally reached the point where I know the nights have to be sorted out for me to carry on loving breastfeeding. all a bit sad really
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I need support - night 2 of no more breastfeeding dd at night - she is 2 and a real milk fiend.
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Jenkeywoo · 26/04/2008 20:46
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