Hello,
After some early posts when ds was tiny, I've been a lurker but I've taken a great deal of info and support from this board over the last few months. But I've had a crap day today and shamelessly need a boost specific to me, I hope you all don't mind.
My ds is 5 months now, was 7 weeks prem and so corrected age is 15 weeks. He was 4lb 9oz at birth and is now 9lb 8oz. We had a very difficult bf start with a rubbish SCBU, HV and reflux until a wonderful bf counsellor got me sorted (latch and frequent feeding regime) and we discovered Gaviscon.
Since then, ds has put on basically 4oz a week. Its very hard when everyone else's baby is HUGE but my LO is developing well and when we saw a consultant paed 2 months ago he was very relaxed and said as long as he went parallel to that bottom 0.4th centile curve, to keep going, to ignore the 'get him on the bottle' types as breast milk was best for him particularly - as he was prem, had reflux and I've got a history of eczema and hay fever.
All was well, he carried on plodding on his 4oz a week and we had a follow up appt with the paed for today. Apart from minor moments of panic when GP said she thought ds had a big head (nonsense) and the HV randomly declaring he was FTT, I was doing OK!
But then today, we saw a different more junior paed, whose first question was ? how often does he feed and for how long - and when I said I fed on demand but it was about every 2 hours during the day and 3-4 hours during the night ? he said I should try to stretch his feeds out and that this would make him take more and get his stomach to grow. I knew it was going to be a disaster! I had to challenge this and was immediately labeled a nutty bf mother and he started to patronize me. Then we discussed when to wean and I said I?d like to do baby-led weaning ? he had no idea what this was and told me that for weight gain, I need to get ds on solids asap. I pointed out the WHO guidelines and my allergy history and he said I could keep exc bf until 6 months but then to get him on the baby rice and puree?
And finally, even though 4oz is just about ok overall and was ok for the consultant, he referred us to the dietician for weaning advice and recommended we get ds on breast milk fortifier. When I asked why, he said this would encourage ds to eat more and that it wouldn?t affect more supply? however I?m not confident this guy knows what he?s on about (see above.) SO, I?m just going to soldier on, doing my on-demand bf and wait to see the dietician, I know I?m doing the right thing but its hard in the face of a medical type? UGH UGH. Rant over. Thank you for listening!
Anna
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LONG POST - Slow weight gain and a bad day with the paediatrician - offload and confidence boost needed please
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annabanana169 · 01/04/2008 22:46
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