as i am really puzzled by this! i'm thinking that it might really help my teensy dd gain weight as she doesn't wake in the nights for feeds. i was, still am tbh, very wary of it as i am a very heavy sleeper. also dd is so small.
but it is something i'm thinking about, esp now that dd sleeps quite happily in her wee grobag, but i have NO idea re how it works! i've read the unicef guidelines etc, and i know dd should be on top of the covers in her grobag, also to the side of me rather than between me and dh. We have no spare room so dh can't move elsewhere.
anyway, things i don't know...
- dd is 10 wks, so not moving much, but will do soon - should i put a guard rail up on my side of the bed (it's not, and can't be, against a wall)
- how ON EARTH do they latch on themselves?! we haven't yet mastered feeding lying down, and the times we've got close i've needed to pull dd in, hold my boob etc. yet i hear people talking about their lo's latching on unbeknown to them in the middle of the night!?!
- can i be under the covers? our house is freezing! but if i am under the covers, then my boobs are under the covers so that gets me back to..how does she latch on?
- if we do manage a lying down feed, dd is quite close in to my armpit (lucky her). do i have to move her away from me at the end of a feed?
- when we have tried feeding lying down, i have to press my boob in so her nose is not squashed into it and she can breathe - i have to be awake to do that, so would i be as well just sitting up anyway?
if anyone could tell me how they co-sleep i would really appreciate it - no detail to small or obvious!!