My Dd is 22 months now and I'm happy to be breastfeeding but tbh there are some pretty crap aspects that I don't know how to deal with and anyone I ask just tells me it's time to stop. For some reason I can't seem to bf anymore without having teeth marks in my nipples - deep deep indents. I have explained to dd that it hurts, have showed her how to open her mouth really wide to latch on which she does but still the teeth. She doesn't bite but they are just kind of in the way. She does have quite big front teeth (at the top) and quite a little mouth. Every feed is painful but I have pretty tough nipples and tend to grin and bear it.
Also she has finally started sleeping a bit better - she breastfeeds to sleep by about 8pm (I know, I know, I'm the only fool in Britain still doing this at 22 months) - most nights she is then sleeping till 4.30/5am which is great but when she wakes she wakes up screaming and asking for 'mi-mi'. I get into her bed and feed her but it isn't just a quick feed - no, she wants to sleep with my nipple clamped in her mouth (and due to teeth thing it bloody hurts). If I remove myself from her mouth she goes psychotic screaming but is still kind of asleep so eventually I have to actually wake her up (usally at about 6am when I feel my nipples are about to fall off). I then hand her over to dh who tries to placate her with books etc whilst I grab a tiny bit more sleep.
Also everyone here seems to night wean first but I just can't see her ever giving up her her night feeds. In the day she can go quite a long time without even asking and also can be reasoned with when awake but at night time it's totally different. Tonight she had both sides and was nearly asleep but my nipple had such deep teeth marks in it I had to take her gently off the breast. I explained why and put on a t-shirt but it then took a full hour and half of sobbing in my arms before she went to sleep. DH and I do not feel that she has the emotional maturity to deal with any of this at the moment. She also has cerebral palsy and has only just learnt to crawl in the last few weeks - she has good language and understanding but seems to be emotionally like a much younger baby. I don't know how much her SN affect her relationship with me and with breastfeeding. I know it has always been a huge comfort at times when things have been pretty crap for her.
I'm hoping they'll be someone out there who can give me a bit of support as I am passionate about BF and want to carry on but it is a bit pants at the moment.
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Jenkeywoo · 05/01/2008 23:53
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