I have been unsuccessful yet again at BF.
DS wad born 2 yrs ago. We had lots of medical issues, and he refused to feed. I had NO support, the hospital syringed him formula withOUT my consent and the visiting community midwife actually told me to "just put him on the bottle" (I really wish I had complained about her!)
After expressing for the 1st 4 days, and paying a private lactation consultant to get him to feed we BF but not very well. I had thrush 3times and found myself supplementing and stopped at 4 months.
Then I had DD who is now 12 weeks. I was so excited as I thought I had learnt so much from the last experience. I BF from birth but then the problems started. She fed for over an hour each time from birth (no one told me about comfort sucking) and had an undetected tongue tie (just fixed at 8 weeks - still can't get nipple to right place, latch good and all positions tried!). Fast forward a few days later and I had the worst bleeding cracked nipples and then mastitis.
I stopped at 10 days but was devasted and tried to re-lactate at 13 days and we never really got the milk back up to her needs.
We have been mix feeding using shields but it really is starting to interfere with supply and have decided 3 months will mark the end (especially as she seems to get more formula from lunch onwards anyway).
I thought 2nd time round was supposed to be easier.
I am absolutley gutted that it didn't work AGAIN. I know longer cry about it and I am sure I will get over it (like I did with DS) but I am sad. And I hate having to explain myself when I whip out the bottle. I seem to live in an area where EVERYONE can BF and people only bat an eyelid when you use a bottle.
I am also so envious when I see someone BF. I long for it in strange way.
Am I just not meant to BF? Does anyone else know what I mean?
Guess I am using this post as a therapy session.
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Unsuccessful at BF twice now...Does anyone else think they are just crap at BF? (long story)
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Elsbells · 31/08/2007 17:07
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