DS will be 5 weeks on Friday, and bf has been going really well so far - no pain, no engorgement, nips not too sore, good latch etc etc etc. Have been really happy with bf, and have even got brave enough to do it in public.
BUT am finding the nights very very hard. DS wakes up once or twice, but won't go back to sleep for two hours sometimes. DH does most of the walking round at night but I still don't sleep, and it is crippling. I feel horribly guilty even admitting it, but sometimes have really resented DS the next morning.
DH has suggested switching to formula once or twice, on grounds that bonding properly with DS is more important than any benefits from bf. He could then do some night feeds, and DS might sleep longer.
I don't want to stop, but I just don't know if he has a point I should consider for the greater good of our little family.
Also, DS takes 45 mins to feed sometimes (every two-three hours). He bobs on and off the breast and falls asleep on it. But if I take him off earlier, is screaming within ten mins. Is this normal? And any tips?
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Moorhen · 29/08/2007 22:29
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