I have a 4.5 month old, he's my first child and lush in every way. Currently going through a sleep regression I'm guessing, waking us up with leg slamming at 6/7 times a night in addition to feeding. He wakes "properly" for the day around 6:30 / 7.
I normally play with him a little, change him get myself fed. I am mix feeding but give him boob every morning - snuggles and sleepy eats, and sleepy eats and sleeeepppyyyy eaaattssss.
I normally wake him after about 1.5 hours and he doesn't mind, he's all smiles. Today I decided to see how long this would go for if I didn't wake him up. He dozed and fed from 9am - 12. I'm not complaining as it gives me a chance to do that half sleeping, zoning out breast feeding thing and rest a bit, I just have a nagging feeling I'm being lazy and and should be "doing" something.
It's not helped when DH starts to "suggest" things to do e.g "it's a lovely day you should wake him and go for a walk". DM has said "oh aren't you up and about yet?" I feel like they are hinting I'm lazy, but this isn't an every day thing maybe twice a week. I do make sure I go out everyday with him in the pram for at least an hour. I also do baby sensory classes with him. Am I just being sensitive and hormonal? Or am i a lazy shitty mum?
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waterjungle · 02/11/2016 14:55
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