Had my DS on Tuesday, he has quite a severe tongue tie, which will be cut on Sunday. I had been trying to breast feed, and he is able to latch and feed, but because of the tongue tie, the latch is shallow and causes me a lot of discomfort, and means he is feeding constantly. Also, one issue is one of my nipples is flatter than the other, so he fussed at that breast and doesn't feed off it as much as the other.
Yesterday it got so bad my nipples started bleeding and feeds were toe curlingly painful, so we decided to give my breasts a break we would feed him formula. He had two lots - the first about 40ml and the second about 25ml, and then he was sick, and there was blood in it. After a lot of hysterics from me, the midwife reassured me on the phone that this was obviously from my nipples. She then advised to feed him every 2/3 hours, just 20 ml at a time.
This worked a dream last night and he was really settled. That did give my breasts a break, but we decided to continue mix feeding with the formula until Sunday to give my breasts some time to heal and I would BF when I could and also express when my milk comes in. Today my milk came in, but he just won't stop feeding at all - I know this is normal, but given that we are feeding formula and BM, it's hard to know exactly what to do! We give him the 20ml formula every 2 hours, but that is not enough, then he will suck at my breast for hours (which is painful) and if It looks like he's asleep and I take him off the breast he just wails. Also, the breast with the flat nipple is now far too engorged for him (even when pumped), so he will not even attempt to latch that and just wails when I try. I tried a nipple shield, but it just wouldn't work and he wailed as I tried to use it.
I have a pump too, and pumped for the first time today now milk is in and got 30ml in the first go. I had intended to save it for his next feed, perhaps to use instead of the formula, but he was wailing for more breast milk so I gave it to him and he just gulped at all right down, and again wanted more breast.
Just concerned that we're just doing this all wrong and he is having far too much milk and we will never be able to get into a routine. Or worse still, that it could make him I'll. We do burp him after every feed, but he rarely does bring anything up, so I feel like I must be doing it wrong. Could someone help? Can anyone offer any advice? I know this is long and probably a bit rambling.
I'm really hopeful that on Sunday when his tongue tie is fixed that this will make things easier and I can actually bear to breast feed more. But today has been horrendous.
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HELP! Day 3 - DS feeding constantly/tongue tie issues
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AndIAskMyself · 12/08/2016 20:33
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