My daughter is 11 days old. She was born at 33 weeks and came home from Special Care 2 days ago. I was adamant that I was going to breastfeed fully this time as I was only able to combination feed my first daughter (born at 28 weeks).
With my youngest being small she was given NG feeds and I expressed milk from day 1 to help my establish my supply and for her to have via NG. I resisted giving her a bottle of expressed breast milk at first but with a toddler at home who I was missing desperately I caved in and gave her a bottle 2 days before she came home. She took it well and it meant she could be discharged home (it satisfies the nurses because they could quantify the about she was getting). We were alternate breast and bottle feeding but they felt she wasn't getting enough from the breast so told us to give bottle top ups afterwards.
The problem is that this isn't sustainable long term. I'm expressing 7 or 8 times a day and the feeds that I'm breastfeeding are taking over an hour because I breastfeed, then give a bottle, then express. At the moment it's doable as my husband is on paternity leave so he either does the bottle while I express or looks after my eldest while I do all of that. But when he's back at work I just don't see how I can be expressing and bottle feeding every three hours with an additional breastfeed every six hours. I did it with my first but I didn't have a toddler to look after then as well.
Sorry this is so long! I just wondered what you would do in this situation? In an ideal world I'd get her fully breastfeeding as then I wouldn't have to express/do the bottle feed. But I don't see that happening because for one thing she's small and doesn't have the energy and the doctors are more concerned about her putting on weight than they are about her breastfeeding. In the absence of full breastfeeding I feel formula is the only viable option but I don't want to give up on breastfeeding either.
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Itsaplayonwords · 30/06/2016 08:21
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