Hello, just after some advice/light at end of tunnel/kick up arse.
.MMyaby is nearly 3 weeks now and is not gaining much weight. She seems ok apart from that: lots of wet/pooey nappies, is alert and seems to be latching ok . But she was weighed on Friday and had only put 40g on in last 6 days so midwife suggested I pump to simulate supply and feed her anything I get. So I started today, but am so fed up. Baby already feeds almost non stop from about 2pm to midnight. Has a 2-3 hour feed in middle of night and a decent feed in the morning and now I have to express in between too. Not sure when I'm supposed to give her the expressed milk either, as midwife said at the end of feeds, but feeds dont seem to end... desperate to go out and get exercise or escape house or just take her out in sling or pram but worried Iam going to miss signs or a feed as she will sleep in sling and so feel I shouldn't. DH is supportive but getting fed up with my cryjng and selfish moaning. Really missed out on the selfless , nurturing characteristics when I gave birth.
We live in France and so no relatives in the country and friends haven't been to see me or baby so feeling v isolated.
Sorry for whinge. Really not enjoying breastfeeding or dare I say it, motherhood v much. Can't send her back though!
Any thoughts? Seeing paediatrician on Monday so will see if he has any suggestions. Is this scenario normal? How long does the cknstant feeding last for? when were you able to get out more? Someon suggested tongue tie on another thread, does this sound possible? Is this the problem /solution, or is there no problem, just normal newborn behaviour? I just don't know what to think!
Thanks for letting me whinge!
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GenevaJoey · 25/06/2016 17:48
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