DS was born 8 days ago by EMCS and has basically never latched on. I expressed colostrum and then at 48 hours when he still wouldn't latch felt totally bullied by midwives into giving him bottles of formula top ups to supplement what I can express. He becomes totally hysterical when I try and latch him on, screams, is inconsolable. Will then calm down but as soon as he goes anywhere near my nipple its like I'm trying to murder him. He is very sleepy between feeds and I often have to wake him to make sure it isn't longer than 4 hours between feeds.
To make matters worse my supply is crap, I never really felt my milk come in and I've not been able to decrease the "top ups" at all.
We've been seen by various midwives and a lactation consultant and no one seems to be able to help much. They did diagnose a posterior tongue tie which has been cut and so far made no difference. He had lost 9% of his birthweight by day 5 and I'm not optimistic about his next weigh in.
I desperately want to breast feed and feel like an utter failure as a mother for not being able to. I can't stand seeing the level of distress. I really would appreciate any advice. TIA.
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LittleTalks · 09/04/2016 16:23
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