Dd is nearly 5 weeks and I've been expressing for her until now. She was six weeks prem and away from me for four nights in intensive care and we struggled to feed even though I really wanted to.
However the last few days I've had to introduce one bottle of formula as I can't express enough milk for her. Also ideally I want to reduce the expressing because I'm shattered and I have an older child who is missing out because I'm spending half my life hooked to a breast pump.
But dd doesn't seem to like the formula. Am I imagining this because I feel so guilty and like shit for formula feeding? When I give it to her she looks disappointed. Also she will drink 150mls of my milk but max only 100 of the formula and usually less. She spits some out too. I see her looking at me like 'what is this mum? I don't want this' she can be really hungry but still not drink much of it.
I feel like the worst mother in the world. She had such a rubbish start thanks to my crap body and now I can't even do this for her. I can't even feed my baby. And if my body hasn't been useless and she had been term we might have been able to breast feed more easily.
Is it possible for them to just refuse the formula because they don't like it? She's used to being bottle fed as I've only really ever expressed. What should I do?
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Dd hates formula?!
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Givinguph0pe · 24/01/2016 09:53
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