I have posted on here before and had some useful advice. I am hoping for some more support and reassurance.
I have a 12 day old DD. I have been trying to BF exclusively and on demand. DD weighted 7lbs 14ozs when born, now back up to 7lbs 10ozs. MW says this weight gain is acceptable, though on the low side.DD has been very difficult to settle - we suspect due to colic - and is fractious every day for a period of up to 7/8 hours, starting in the early afternoon and carrying on. The only way of calming her appears to be putting her on the breast. Sometimes, this means sitting for several hours at at timewith her on the breast.
I suppose night times are typical for newborns, in that she will sleep for a couple of hours, feed, and then only tends to sleep on mine or DH's belly.
The whole process is exhausting, and I hate to see DD so unsettled. Today I BF for about 40 mins at 2.30pm. She was upset coming off the boob,so I resorted to a formula top up, of which she guzzled approx 90mls. Why would she take this much directly after a long bf? She then seemed calmer for about an hour and even snoozed, although she has now woken up again in a fractious state.
Have tried infacol for 5 days with no apparent success. Have been advised by MW that my latch on and BF technique is ok, though I find the process uncomfortable and draining. MW advises that I should simply leave DD on the breast and accept that this is parenthood.
What can I do to start relaxing, and build my confidence about parenthood? I am desperate for rest, and if ff buys me and DH some sleep, I am tired enough to consider top ups or a change over.MW says to sleep when DD sleeps, but she does not seem to sleep for more than 10-11 hours a day, and I cannot stay in bed all the time on the off chance she will sleep.
Where can I go for more help or support? What advice do other mumsnetters have to get me through this stage? Thank you.
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flowers1 · 28/11/2006 16:53
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