Long - sorry. I am at the end of my tether with my DD's feeding issues.She has never been an easy and relaxed feeder. I have battled through poor latch, engorgement, fast let-down and colic etc and have got to 15wks exclusively bfing. She is not gaining weight very well - she was 6lb 9oz at birth and at 15 weeks was only 10lb (having lost 4.5oz since the week before). In the last two weeks feeding has got more and more difficult. It's not helped by the fact she has been ill with a cold/virus, but the underlying problem has been there since before she came down with the illness. Currently, if she latches on at all, she will suck for a while, sometimes past let down, and then pop off the breast writhing. She'll often arch her back and scream - sometimes won't even let me get her into bfing position, even though she's obviously hungry. Sometimes I get some milk into her by changing position, walking around, bouncing on the ball - sometimes we have to abandon the feed. I try calming her by having her suck my finger (which she does fine) and putting her back on, and it sometimes works. Feeding her when she's drowsy seems to work but it relies on me catching the exact moment. I've had her seen by the doctor to rule out ear infections etc, and I've consulted the health visitor (who is pretty good, mum to 3 bf children). I've also spoken to an NCT bf counsellor. None of this has really helped and I'm getting worn down by the effort of feeding and am really demoralised after each bad feed. I don't want to wean early and I don't want to switch to bottles/formula. She currently won't really take a bottle anyway and I'm trying to avoid it while I fix the bfing. Fixing the bfing is what I'm really desperate to do. Anyone got any advice? I'd travel to attend a bf clinic if anyone knows of a good one - I'm in Derby. Any help much appreciated.
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