DD is 18mo, and still BFs a lot, including through the night, but is fine without it for a whole day if I'm not around (not attempted bedtime with no boob!).
Her big brother stopped at about 13mo, when I was pregnant with DD, but we had been cutting down on purpose for months because I believed I needed to due to returning to work/because I thought that weaning meant "completely replacing breastmilk with food".
DH has asked me a couple of times (again today) when I'm planning to stop. He says he isn't having a go, but he is certainly unconvinced of the benefits of longer-term bfing, and even believes that still bfing at say 4 years could be psychologically damaging.
He's well educated, very evidence-based, and to him the lack of large studies means that for him there is no proof that bfing past about 1 is beneficial in a developed nation. Not sure why he doesn't even believe the WHO's "for at least 2 years" recommendation.
I guess I just feel upset that I have to justify breastfeeding to my husband. I can't convince him, I have to let him read the evidence for himself and hopefully convince himself. But I don't think he sees it as an important enough issue to spend his precious time researching.
Just :( really.
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cakesonatrain · 10/09/2014 20:03
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