Hi everyone, sorry for the following long post. In need of some advice please, if anyone has any? I've had a few issues before regarding BF my DD, the lovely ladies of MN gave fab advice, as did LLL adviser, and things settled down nicely (DD gaining weight etc) Bit of background - DD born at 39 wks by ELCS at 2.8kg, got off to a shaky start, she wasn't gaining that well, then got help and she was suddenly gaining well.
However, we're in a doldrum again. 4 weeks ago, my Gran (who I was pretty close to; I'm from a really small family and we saw her every day) passed away after a short illness. This seems to have had a massive impact on both me and DD (in terms of BF) At the time my Gran passed away, DD was feeding more than normal, but I kept at it, feeding to demand. This has been the case since.
Then today I had the HV round who stated the DD was jaundiced on her face, but not her eyes or body. She then weighed her and said she was very concerned about her weight as she's now 3.8kg, so has dropped from 4.1kg 4 weeks ago. I explained the bereavement, and said that recently my feeding has gone back to 2-3 hourly as dictated by DD who is settled after feed, alert and active. HV said developmentally, DD is fine.
HV called the GP surgery and arranged an appointment this afternoon to have the jaundice checked. She then said that I really must give her at least one FF per day, that I had little or no chance of managing to get a hospital breast pump as the "list is long, and you're near the bottom" and that things must improve by next week.
So...off to GP's. GP examined her, said she's fine (not jaundiced etc) but that she was worried about the weight issue. She then said she'd want us to be seen by a paediatrician at the 'weight gain clinic' and that we might have to go to the urgent one over the weekend. She called the on call paed, who said to give DD 30ml formula after each BF, so 180ml per day. I got really upset in the office, and tried to explain that I feel like such a failure, despite obviously wanting to do the best for DD.
My DP is now saying that we have to do this, as is my Mum, so I feel that the cards are stacked against me. Does anyone have any experience of this, or any words of wisdom? I'm at a loss, and will feel gutted if I have to eventually give up BF because I introduce formula. Sorry again for the long post, and thanks for reading.
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