My MIL maintains that I breastfeed my Baby too much and too often, and it is this that is causing her to spit up so much. And of course LO has spat up on her! She says I need to wait until the Baby cries, and if it was good enough for her children, why are we disagreeing. Her GP in 1975 told her the louder they cry, the healthier they are.
She's wrong, I know this, but it's got really bad. My DP is super supportive, but they have told him they are "devastated" that we don't take their advice when they've had 3 kids. They are not currently talking to us and are insulted that we find their approach "completely unacceptable" (their words).
We've done all the mature things, tried to explain, cited GP etc in person, phone and letter but they maintain that comments about me overfeeding cannot be offensive and I'm wrong and rude in rejecting their view. I'm after some tales of humour or similar situations to help me feel like this could one day improve.
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espresso14 · 22/05/2014 16:48
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