I have a baby who is approaching 4 weeks old. He is exclusively breast fed which is going well and 99% of the time I love doing it.
However, the remaining 1% of me feels a bit resentful of how much it ties me to the baby whilst my DH's input is understandably less.
I absolutely love my son and would never stop breast feeding but sometimes I'd just like some me time and some sleep.
When DS wakes in the night DH will get him up and to do his nappy but then he gets the luxury of going straight back to sleep whereas I'm usually up for 1-1.5 hours with DS, feeding him, winding him and trying to settle him. Once DS has gone to sleep he's usually awake 2 hours later and the cycle starts again. Every time my DH tells me how tired he is I inwardly seethe.
I'm also jealous that he gets to go out for hours and pursue his hobbies, going to the gym, playing football etc and have that break from the crying and the 4 walls,just having that quality time for himself whereas I just don't have that option.
Like I said, I love my DS and my DH, I'm not angry with either of them about the situation, I just had to get it off my chest.
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Does anyone else feel a bit resentful. At times?
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Writerwannabe83 · 16/04/2014 07:20
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