Sore nipples - please tell me it will get better...(31 Posts)
My newborn is only 2 days old, and every time I bf my nipples hurt so much... Not just at the beginning, but through the whole feed, and everywhere it says this is not normal and should only hurt at the beginning.
It's such an agony every time... I've been in tears 5 times today as it's just unbearable... MW been visiting yesterday and today, and he's latching on fine, but it still hurts...
Please tell me it will go away and my nipples just need to toughen up??....
I found it all very painful and had mastitis, then thrush. Eventually, my LO figured it out and I toughened up, andhe is now 8 months old and a very happy, healthy breastfed boy, and breastfeeding is a breeze. Really. I just put him sort of near my boon and he works it out, entirely pain-free.
Just keep going! You are doing better than you think.
While nipples are healing, try breast shells like these http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B000MMQO60
They hold clothing etc away and let air circulate to help sore nips heal. And they collect any milk leaks... Wearing them for even half an hour after feeds, with Lansinoh on, really eased discomfort for me.
Otherwise I second pp's advice to get latch checked. 10 different midwives + 2 HVs told me my latch was perfect when it plainly wasn't . It took one face to face meeting with an NCT breastfeeding counsellor to show me what a really good latch was meant to be like.
Re engorgement: I remember a few weeks of super-painful engorgement. Even clothes loosely touching was painful. I had some cold-packs that helped. And hand expressing a little when it was really bad to allow DS to latch - as pp said.
Then for a few months they'd get engorged if I hadn't fed for a while. When I went back to work at 5.5 months I had a few weeks of uncomfortable engorgement while I was pumping. But they softened right down and I went on to feed till DS was 2. They even went back to normal size and continued to feed well. (Although, I produced enough milk for quintuplets, which I know is different to many people's experience)
Boobs really are amazing!
What they said re latch, but also worth getting someone to check (if they haven't already) whether your LO has a tongue tie. I had a hideous start to BFing but an undiagnosed tongue tie was the culprit and getting that sorted allowed me to eventually correct latch, heal nips and am now still feeding my 14 month old. Absolutely second the recommendations for getting a breastfeeding support worker to watch you latch baby on - mine was a lifesaver. Well d
Glad to hear it's getting better whenever I felt like giving up, I used to keep saying myself "give it another week and see how you feel". It helped to give myself little targets to keep me going.
With the engorgement, it may be because its still early days and your body is still adapting to getting the whole supply and demand thing right. If its uncomfortable I would hand express until they feel a bit softer, especially before a feed because when your boobs are too full it makes it very difficult for newborns to latch on properly which will can be more uncomfortable for you as well.
It's definitely getting better. Had a couple almost pain free feeds yesterday, but it's a bit of a one step forward, half step back I think...
I wanted to ask about breast engorgement - do they ever go soft again while you bf? Or do they remain a bit hard until you feed? Mine has eased down a bit, but still fill up a bit and go a bit hard until I feed him.
I was in pain for 6 weeks. I kept going because at 3 weeks the NCT bf counsellor said my baby had a high palate and it would be ok in 2-3 weeks as his head grew and she was right! This was after seeing 6+ different midwives/hv though who just told me the latch was fine...which it was, but it still was agony!
Get an expert to check your baby's mouth for structural issues if the latch is apparently ok. Good luck OP.
I have no advice I'm afraid, as I'd come on here to post the exact same question - I'm sitting painfully feeding 2do DS in my hospital room! We'll get there, it'll get better x
I was sore for a week. Day 3 which is when I left hospital was the worst because my boobs were engorged which made it worse.
I wouldn't have coped without lansinoh, I forgot to apply it after a shower once and my nipples were so dry within an hour.
It does get better, just take it a day at a time and try to find a BF support group. The other mum's let you know you're not alone and the professional help can ensure you don't develop problems down the line.
Good luck and congratulations on your newborn. My dd is 7 weeks and time is going so fast!
And yes it should get better! And hopefully it will be worth it for you, I love it !
Lansinoh and ibuprofen helped me ... I was in agony on night 2,so bad we sent SOS messages to midwives and my DM at about 4am.. They told me latch fine and dd getting plenty. Lansinoh was amazing, didn't take more than a few days of putting it on before each feed for pain to go almost completely,
But def get an expert to come to check latch and help you ASAP. They should treat this as a priority
Mine cracked terribly, then would partially heal only for the wounds to be torn open again at each feed! It felt like being stabbed!!
My ds had an awful latch though, and never really sucked normally for many months and I still healed fairly quickly. You will too.
I would echo what everyone else said. Get latch checked again or try different positions.
I found it sore for the first few weeks and gradually got better. I echo breast milk on your nipples and airing them where possible.
Thanks for your replies and reassurance. It means a lot.
I think I was very tired and a bit overwhelmed yesterday. He did slip off a couple times and snapped my nipple very painfully, and it just got me...
Feeling a bit more positive today. I don't know if it's just knowing there is a light at the end of a tunnel (although I can't quite see it just yet), or if the pain is actually calming down. I do notice it is worse at the very start, so there is hoping.
I have been putting Lansinoh from the very start after every feed, so no cracked nipples so far. Have started taking paracetamol too, and will try tea bags...
I really don't want to give up and will give it a chance. I know it's still early days, so I will persevere, and hopefully it will turn out to be a nice experience.
Thanks for your support
I would definitely get more help with the latch! People kept telling me it would get better, hv said latch was fine etc etc...
6 weeks in, still crying every 4am feed due to pain! Started getting shooting pains from nipple through to back! Told it was thrush....
All bollocks - it was the latch! Lactation consultant taught proper latch, instant pain relief!! And the holes in my nipples are finally starting to close!
Please don't wait until its too late - get help until it doesn't hurt! Don't wait for 6 weeks for it to magically get better like I did!
Sorry for the essay just really wish someone had told me this when I was in your boat!
Also recommend the multimam compresses, so soothing and really work at healing.
Many congrats and well done for going for it with the BF. Poor you. Yes, I remember it being agonising for a couple of weeks with each of my DS. DO stick with it, as once it starts to work it's SOOO easy and convenient. BUT definitely get some proper help to check the latch. I agree with others that MW and HV are not that good. Get a proper breastfeeding counsellor's help.
You think it hurts now? ..just wait till yor baby gets teeth
It seems like you are going through a rough patch right now but believe me it will get better very soon. What I found helpful was dipping my nipples in warm water and salt (each side for about 10 seconds only). It took the pain away and also prevented any infection. Other than that lansinoh was my life saver. Me and my daughter also had a rocky start, poor latch, sore nipples (which went on to being cracked) etc etc.. but it all got better very soon.. We have been breastfeeding for 3 months now and it is actually very nice. Hang in there and it will all turn into a great experience for you and your baby very soon
What everyone else said about getting the latch checked out, lansinoh, painkillers if necessary!
Also if you can get your hands on Multi Mam Compresses, they are a total godsend for sore nipples, incredibly soothing.
You must get some Lansinoh it is magic stuff. Put it on after every feed, try and air the nips a bit too!
I know what you mean about toughening up, I found they did this after the cracks etc healed up.
Yes it will get better!
I was in a lot of pain for the first four weeks and then it got easier, by 6 weeks i was pain free and it was so lovely! I was very close to giving up many times but so glad I made myself go on. Its worth it now! Your baby is learning how to breastfeed just as much as your are, they don't automatically get the latch exactly right from birth but definitely worth getting it checked out.
Big yes to breastmilk on nipples, was the best thing for healing cracks. And get the air to your boobs as much as poss.
Oh and don't overdo the lanolin cream, I plastered it on and I think it could of made things worse as LO couldn't get latch right because it was so slippery!
Congrats on your baby!
i have had 3 dc and each time it has been hell for the first few weeks.
It's really inportant they are well attached to the nipple. Even one feed where they are badly latched on can cause weeks of pain !
Persevere , it does get better. Rub breast milk on your nipples, it's very healing and get your health visitor to show you how to make sure your baby is well atached, even if it means taking them off nipple and trying again.
Deep breaths and focus on your tiny lovely baby. It will be ok. Can't get enough support. 2nd, 3rd, 4th opinions on the latch. If you can get to a group, do. There was a 4 day old at my local one yesterday. Same problems, you're really not alone.
Get some Lansinoh and put it on after every feed - you don't have to wipe it off before feeding. Keep your nipples in the fresh as much you can - mine we're rubbing on the inside of my new nursing bra which was making it worse.
Keep asking for help. Get anyone and everyone to check your latch.
We're four weeks into bf after a rocky start of tube feeding, formula top ups and days under a jaundice lamp but it's getting much better. The first 10-20 seconds are still quite sore, but not toe curlingly so.
I'm just finishing up a feed, and can promise you fb is worth the initial discomfort when you're say in bed feeding in the middle of the night. I'm so glad I'm not up boiling the kettle and waiting for formula to warmup when it's so chilly!
And congratulations on your newborn!
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