Hungry baby or feed more often??

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BettyBoo246 Mon 09-Sep-13 10:22:43

Hello - my nearly 6 week old lo is feeding 4 hourly thru the nite at the minute, however during the day he is still wanting a feed every two hours. I'm feeding him 4 hourly in the day but as I say he wants one every 2 hours so I spend 2 hours between his day feeds trying to pacify him and feel really cruel sad my hv told me tho to start stretching out his feeds to get him in a routine, which has worked at nite.
Should I just feed him more often in the day? Would this mess up his nite time routine or should I put him on hungrier milk to satisfy him during the day? Any advice would be much appreciated smile

BettyBoo246 Mon 09-Sep-13 15:35:31

Tell me about it the aptimal comfort absolute reeks and his bibs end up stinking after one use! I keep thinking about changing back to the first milk but I don't want to make his constipation worse, so hard to know what to do for the best. I can completely relate to the crying in public - I'm scared to take him anywhere in case he has a crying fit or he needs feeding whilst out, really hard feeding him in public when he has reflux! I swapped to the comfort because I thought he was gagging/choking/arching his back because of colic but now I 'know' it's silent reflux, aptimal do a reflux milk too but I've heard it's like sma staydown n again is bad for constipation. I didn't know if he was too young for ranitidine? But gp's reluctant to prescribe I think!

GoingUpInTheWorld Mon 09-Sep-13 15:44:53

Rantidine is seen as a last resort.

My friends child had it and it made no difference, her baby still puked everywhere after every feed.

Is your baby actually sick?

My dd was never actually sick.

I remember going to my doctors when dd was 14 weeks old, and saying to the doctor well all the books and professionals say it should be gone this colic by 13 weeks and now shes 14 weeks and its still just as bad! He looked at me like this hmm

It made me realize though that babies dont do what the books and professional say they do!!!!

What milk was you using before the comfort milk. Has the comfort milk helped with the constipation?

BettyBoo246 Mon 09-Sep-13 15:56:23

No he's not sick and gp looked at me gone out when I said it was silent reflux, said she had never heard of it! Think I know more than her 2bh about reflux/silent reflux. I'm going to see her again this afternoon so I'll see what she has to say this time.
He was on the first milk before but no the comfort has improved his constipation sad and he's been on it for 3 weeks now! Think I will swap back. The gaviscon does work to a point but its definitely not a miracle cure and his constipation is that bad now since he's been on it that he only poos when I help him push it out, so upsetting seeing him cry all time for one thing or the other sad
My mum says there is only thing that will cure it all and that's time, I'm starting to believe she's right!

gretagrape Mon 09-Sep-13 16:01:53

Your HV sounds shit. A routine at 6 weeks?? Your 6 week old's tummy is still so, so tiny and may not even physically capable of taking in enough milk to last 4 hours.

I got so many different answers about every subject from different HV's that in the end I didn't bother asking as I think it was actually preventing me from developing my own instincts.

Don't feel guilty about feeding your baby earlier than your dopey HV has said you are "supposed" to - it just means you care and want the best for your bub and you are trusting that your instincts are right and that deep down you know her advice was crap.

GoingUpInTheWorld Mon 09-Sep-13 16:05:35

Reflux is were a baby is constantly sick

Silent reflux is were a baby is not sick but has basically heartburn through the stomach refluxing acid back up the wind pipe.

Was it aptimal that he was on?

I believe aptimal is easier to digest than the other milks. For constipation buy some not from concentrate orange juice in a carton and put a very small amount in his bottle and dilute with water. I believe that does really help.

So basically you have a colic baby, whos very constipated and has heartburn?

I think the gaviscon is making him more constipated and probaly making him more in pain.

Have a chat with your gp.

Did he have constipation before you started the gaviscon?

BettyBoo246 Mon 09-Sep-13 16:12:58

That about sums him up yes smile
Yh he did have constipation before gaviscon 2bh but I think that was down to change in formula to comfort milk but hv said to persevere with the comfort milk for his colic - i think 3 weeks is enough now?
Yh I use aptimal, was told to stay clear of sma and c&g is apparently same company as aptimal?
I will definitely try the orange juice thanx, would u say 1oz juice to 4oz water? its just hard getting him to drink anything without the gaviscon in - such a vicious circle!

GoingUpInTheWorld Mon 09-Sep-13 17:15:12

Yes that amount of orange plus water is fine. Or you could try half an oz and 4 oz of water.

I only put my dd on colic milk for a few weeks. When you change milks, its suppose to take a week to take effect.

I think aptimal is a brand on its own but im not sure.

Its really hard to know whats best when they are like this, you try everything. I spent a fortune with stupid fads thats were suppose to help like ifacol, dentix drops etc, anti colic bottles. Its all to make you buy it as they know that parents will try anything if they think it will help.

ExBrightonBell Mon 09-Sep-13 18:28:41

You shouldn't give a baby that isn't weaned (under 6 months) fruit juice even if it's diluted. If the constipation is continuing and causing a lot of pain then really it needs a GP to prescribe something.

BettyBoo246 Mon 09-Sep-13 18:30:13

Well gp has just said to carry on with the gaviscon even if its only helping a little and to come off the comfort milk too as lo prob doesn't like the taste or consistency. Soo its back to the first milk and if he has put enough weight on he can have two sachets in each bottle! She did also say to try and stretch his stomach. And he should outgrow it once on solids, seems a lifetime away sad
I couldn't agree more with the anti colic marketing, I was contemplating the dr browns bottles but when I've looked more in to them the reviews are 50/50 anyway!

BettyBoo246 Mon 09-Sep-13 18:32:28

ExBrightonBell - just asked gp about his constipation and she only advised water between feeds! Gp not the most helpful 2bh but will ask hv too on Thursday.

Ragusa Mon 09-Sep-13 19:36:05

Your healthcare professionals sound like a right shower TBH. Can you change practices?

First off, drinking 6 oz every 4 hrs is going to make most 6 week olds puke. It's too much I reckon, every 2 or 3 hours might suit him better..

Second, don't rule out cows' milk allergy. Despite the fact he also spits up water it may still be this - it really upsets the digestive system. Hydrolysed formula is worth a try.

Gaviscon is notorious for causing constipation. There is something you can buy called carobel ( special order from boots, but cheap) instead. Not as constipating.

His sleep is amazing by the way.

Eatchocolatedrinkgreentea Wed 11-Sep-13 20:33:02

My DS is 7weeks and has been taking 5oz every 3/4 hours for about 3/4 weeks now, the last 4 days he was searching for a feed during the day after 2 hours so yesterday afternoon I upped his feed to 6oz. Now an hour or so after feeds we have a screaming baby tbh he started like this on Sunday but I put it down to trapped wind. I'm
Now thinking it could be that plus the 6oz is too heavy for him? My gut instinct is also telling me to reduce feed back down to 5oz. Am I right or is it his body getting used to the extra ounce? With 6oz he goes 4/5 hours. X

LadyGoodman Wed 11-Sep-13 20:40:00

Your HV is an idiot though think other posters have told u that already grin

My lo went no more than 3hr between feeds ever!! smaller bottles more often seems best way forward

Ragusa Wed 11-Sep-13 20:54:09

Eatchocolatedrinkgreentea, I would be tempted to try just giving him a bit less a bit more often, so more overall but less at one sitting IYSWIM. I know it's a pain in the bum, but what happens if you feed him, say, 3 or 4 oz every couple of hours? I would follow your gut instinct.

Does he have a dummy? Maybe he just wants to suck and is getting too much milk ...?

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