I was absolutely adamant that I was going BF DD 3 years ago and I was devastated after a long induction that nothing seemed to work for me or DD. I drove me and DD 30 miles everyday to our nearest NHS BF consultant but after a while of DD not putting on weight (and more worryingly not pooing) I was advised to bottle feed. I tried to express and bottle feed but despite weeks of trying 7 times a day no milk would come out.
It could have been the long induction with so many drugs to kick start labour or it could have been, as one midwifw suggested, that I have large nipples! They really don't look that big....but anyway!
Now I am PG with DC2 I am becoming progressively more worried any BF. My mother goes on about all the time saying that I will obviously try again this time and with luck it will works fine so I need to think about suitable clothing for when the baby is born etc. she is also saying that i shouldn't plan to anything for 6 months as i'll be too tied to the baby (this includes going swimming for 30 mins and leaving the DCs with DH. She tells me how hard it was BFing me and DB and how tied she was to home for at least 6 months. She was also warning me of how DD may react badly to me BFing the new DC.
The problem is that I am not sure that I even want to BF this time. It was so awful and stressful last time that I'm not sure I can cope with that again. However, I am also worrried that I will be able to do it this time and I'll actually just find it too hard as it'll be the first time I've done it and I'll have a 3 year old to look after. The idea of not being able to go for a 30min swim on my own for 6 months sends me into a cold sweat.
Am I being pathetic and selfish as my mother evidently thinks?
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Toowittoowoo · 30/07/2013 14:13
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