Yesterday, I was waiting on the grass next to the bus stop with my 14moDD. I rarely need to feed her in public now, but it was hot, she was tired and fractious and I had her in the front sling ready to get on the bus. She started crying and tugging at my top so eventually I let her latch on.
Her floppy hat covered everything up, but it was probably clear that I was feeding her because of the position of her head.
Middle aged lady at the bus stop noticed me latching her on and continued staring and commenting to her friend, who turned round to have a not-so-subtle stare. There was no friendliness in either of their expressions and I felt uncomfortable. This continued on the bus. DD was asleep by then and no longer feeding.
When we got off, I saw both of them rubbernecking out of the corner of my eye.
DD is tall and solid and could easily pass for 18months+, so I imagine this was behind it (not that this excuses them). It was only after I began to feed her that the attention started, so I am assuming that was the issue.
I am expecting to be handed a grip here, but am crap with confrontation and yet would have loved to have let those women know how rude they were being (without making a a scene).
Couldn't shake the feeling that we were doing something 'wrong', hence it still bothering me now.
This isn't even necessarily a breastfeeding thing. I am sure most people have been stared at rudely for one thing or another.
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If you're bfing a toddler, how do you react to 'funny' looks or comments?
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ByHecuba · 21/07/2013 00:44
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