I'm preg for the first time, and want to try BF but am fairly anxious as its not something I've seen done by anyone else in my family or freinds. OH is the opposite and thourght formulae was only for mums/bb's that were ill and/or couldn't BF (diff cultures). He keeps saying its natural, and therefore easy as everyone does it and you see them out and about, BF easily. He won't listen to what the MW and me tell him, regards the first weeks/months and getting BF established. He also keeps saying he can work straight after the birth as only I can feed the bb so he dosen't need to be their.
Is there any way to prepare him (or me for that matter), for the reality of a crying baby, sleepless nights, potentail BF problems, my tiredness/hormones etc or do I need to just wait it out and hope for the best? Is it going to be possible to make a successs of BF when OH has his head in the sand?
He has been great so far during my preg, but it's been really easy so I think he is living in denail!
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purplemurple1 · 15/07/2013 11:11
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