In the last couple of weeks it has become very painful to breastfeed my toddler and I am trying to discourage him from breastfeed in an attempt to end it altogether but I'm not having much success.
His latch is terribly painful. His suction feels like it has increased a lot and it feels like he is not opening his mouth as much as he used to. My nipples are very painful all the time and have become swollen. I have tried asking him and showing him how to open his mouth more and I've asked him to relax on the sucking but I don't think he understands. Also does anyone know if the swollen nipples could have long term damage/implications?
Also how on earth do I go about stopping breastfeeding without upsetting him :( he still wakes at night for feeds and in some ways I think he actually needs the comfort more at this stage. I had been shortening feeds but this failed recently when he went through period of more night wakings and late bedtimes which i think are both linked to him needing to have a shorter nap. We are working on this but it still seems that going back to shorter night feeds (and just the one night feed) is still a long way off.
The night wakings I'm dealing with by ending the night cosleeping (which interestingly we never managed to do while he was a baby ) so the lack of sleep is not a problem, the problem is more with the breastfeeding and the painful latch.
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Difficulties breastfeeding 2 year old. I'm in a lot of pain!
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jessieagain · 14/07/2013 12:04
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