I posted a couple of months ago about DD (2yo) who was bfing 5-7 times a day and countless times at night, which I just couldn't do anymore. I got some great advice and have now managed to sort out the daytime bf by regularising the feeds and only feeding in bed. So she now feeds in the mornings, during her afternoon nap and going to sleep, which is great.
The last three nights I have been trying to sort out the night time feeds because I can't take it anymore (on a typical night she will sleep for 4 hours straight and then start waking me to bf every 2 hours). I am finding this a lot more difficult because there are no distractions and we are in bed anyway (bed is her daytime cue for bf). So far I have tried telling her that we will bf to sleep and then again in the morning but I am spending quite a bit of time awake at night.
She wakes up and calmly asks to bf, when I refuse she doesn't want cuddles but starts screaming/crying and tries to get out of bed. She won't let me hold her so I have to wait it out, in bed, I do stop her from leaving the bed and place her back on it. Eventually she is ready for cuddles and falls asleep in my arms while I am sitting up. This is the biggest problem because I have to lie down very slowly after she has really fallen asleep with the toddler on top of me. I weigh 53 kilos and she weighs 13 kilos so this is killing me! As soon as I try to ease her off me (staying in the bed and cuddling her) she wakes up screaming and we start from the beginning.
Any thoughts? Could there be something physical keeping her awake and up right that was being helped by the bf (reflux or stomach problems)? Do I just percevere and see how many nights I can survive? The screaming is horrific, she literally takes in a huge breath and then lets it all out - I have to wear ear plugs to survive it next to her!
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Cutting down on toddler's night time bfs
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Booboostoo · 02/07/2013 16:37
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