I know this probably sounds ridiculous, but my son is now 18 months old and I still feel guilty as I wasn't able to breastfeed. It was something I desperately wanted to do, but felt I didn't get the support I needed from the hospital and community midwives after he was born as the staff were all too busy. They go on with their promotion of it before you give birth and the reality is that they don't have the time to spend with you making sure it's working afterwards. My son was having trouble latching on and as a first-time mum I panicked that he would become dehydrated and starve, so gave in and fed him formula. I'm sure a lot of mums have had a great experience and plenty of help so maybe it was just the area I live in. We are ttc#2 and its something I want to make sure I get support with if we are lucky enough to have another baby. Has anyone had a similar experience and been able to come to terms with the feelings of failure?
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Still Feel Guilty as Couldn't Breastfeed
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Tinyflutterby · 30/01/2013 15:05
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