So, I'm feeing my 23 month old and 19 weeks pregnant with no2. I've been feeling very tender since I found out I was pregnant, pretty much. My aim has been to tandem feed as I really don't think DS is ready to stop feeding yet - but I am slowly feeling more and more frustrated - even angry - about bf.
My supply has dropped noticeably over the past couple of weeks and DS has partially compensated by increasing his intake of other fluids. But he still has a very strong need to comfort feed, and feeding him to sleep is the only way I can get him down in the evening when I'm on my own with him (2-3 times a week). As we co-sleep he also wakes 2-3 times a night to feed.
As my supply drops its taking him longer to drop off in the evenings, and when he wakes at night he feeds for longer (fully waking me up while he does so because the feeling is so irritating) or ends up waking himself up and finding it impossible to get back of to sleep again.
I'm spending several nights a week alone in the spare room because we all sleep better (ds stays in with dh), and dh is doing as many bedtimes as he can. But the ones I end up doing are driving me CRAZY. Last night it took him more that TWO HOURS to go off to sleep. Because he sleeps in our bed, if I try to sneak off before he's properly dropping off/asleep, he just gets out and bangs on the door. So I end up feeding him, ending up nearly in tears because the sensation is so horrid at the moment.
Anyway, DH has just told me he is unlikely to be back for bedtime this evening and I'm feeling miserable. :( Lots of other stress going on at the moment so I'm blowing this all out of proportion. I don't want to DO two hour fucking bedtimes of discomfort anymore. But I don't think I have the heart to stop Ds feeding before he's ready. And I have no fucking clue how I would ever get him to go to sleep without it - he's ALWAYS been an awful, awful sleeper.
God only knows how I'm going to manage this when no2 arrives.
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TheTermagantToaster · 06/10/2012 13:07
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