Hi all
HELP HELP HELP
My 5 yr old boy has developed a fear of being left alone. He goes to school without issue but when we are at home he follows either my wife or I around continually. He can be watching TV downstairs or playing with toys and if I pop upstairs for even 5 mins to use the loo he start calling out wanting to know where I am and then come and find me.
Nights are by far the worst. He's not slept in his own bed for at least 4 weeks. He goes to bed without issue. We follow the same routine that we've had since he was a baby : PJ's on, teeth brush, into bed, story, lights out & 5/10 mins of singing. He's usually asleep at this point but even if not he'll let me leave the room and he fall asleep within a few mins. But a few hours later he'll wake and go crazy. He'll scream out for me and won't settle again.
I've tried repeating the bed time routine, I've tried telling him off, I've tried leaving him to cry, I've even tried putting him in the spare bedroom which is directly adjacent to ours so he can look over and see us in bed but nothing works apart from putting him into bed with us.
I really don't know how to break this cycle but at the same time reassure him that he is perfectly safe and should be happy to sleep in his own bed in his own room.
Any advice or suggestions will be gratefully received.
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5 yr old boy refuses to sleep in own bed/room
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SleepyDadZZzzzz · 22/01/2015 10:09
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