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Chances of Conceiving???? (Please don't judge me)

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Kourtenay07 Fri 18-Jul-14 12:33:04

Hi, I don't really no where to start, so hope this all makes sense. I'm 22, and I've just had a Ectopic pregnancy treated by Methotrexate Injection (No tube removal). I was told one of my tubes is damaged but the other one seems fine, and I also found out I had Chlamydia at the same time, which I'm so embarrassed of as it probably the cause of my Ectopic (I contracted the Chlamydia whilst on a break from my boyfriend who I have been with for 4 years). But it is not this that is making me scared I will never conceive again.

When I was 12, I was abused by an older man. I contracted Chlamydia twice, Gonorrhea, and HPV, which I think later caused me to contract warts. I also had a baby at 15, and I've had four abortions. I know this sounds terrible and I have been judged all my life. I know what I sound like, and what people will think, but please, I'm looking for anyone who has a similar experience, or anything, just to give me a bit of advise as weather it is possible I will conceive again, as before my Ectopic I never had a problem, but I think this was the end of my fertility for me.

Please do not judge me I am a changed person from the screwed up kid I used to be I now have my own House, Car, Job and a beautiful daughter and boyfriend. I'm just so scared please help!

Obviously I no this maybe embarrassing for people and admit things like these so please feel free to inbox me xxx

Chachah Fri 18-Jul-14 12:35:27

why would anyone judge you for having been abused as a child!

I'm not sure about your question, but didn't want to read and run. Good luck flowers

fairgame Fri 18-Jul-14 12:40:49

I didn't want to read and run. I've not experienced an ectopic myself but logically I don't see why you wouldn't conceive again. Lots of people conceive after an ectopic. You've got one good tube and one not so good so it might take a little longer but it won't be impossible.

fairgame Fri 18-Jul-14 15:34:50

It might be worth asking MN to move this into conception or normal chat for more traffic as its currently in bloggers chat smile

Kourtenay07 Fri 18-Jul-14 15:55:18

Yes I have done I only just made they account today, wasnt sure weather to go lol smile x

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