Hello everyone my name is Genevieve.
I wanted to blog about my experiences being a bipolar mummy and the pros and cons about it. Like many of you we enjoy our children endlessly but even though i am a hard working mummy that's always on the go to male sure my children and my husband are sorted in everyway i have found the increasing attack of the mental health labels trying to sabotage my normality of parenthood. I have been diagnosed with bipolar and personality disorder since i was 17, i do not have a criminal record nor have i been a threat to anyone. Recently though since asking for help around my eldest problems i have been vindicated by those suposedly there to help. I have been stable for many years now and always use the services i can access in times of need but my son whom is six has had problems since birth and we were told it was aspergers,he head butts, smears, violent out bursts hearing voices that cause him great distress i and my husband were advised to seek help from the behavioural nurse to which we did. Recently though at a network meeting for Ethan and Aurelia (my middle child under GOSH) i have been told it is my mental health making things up to get attention, funny really not as in ha ha but just disbelief at people in a professional sense having such ignorance. I have been assessed and mental health have said i am stable and far from unwell, in digging a little further it has recently come to light that social services have decided this due to not witnessing my sons problem and found it an easier solution to blame myself. If i was unwell and making this up why have people other than myself seen his behaviour? My husband has also been pushing for support and we are completely heart broken by what they are doing. I am having to see a solicitor tomorrow but are already aware that this social worker has done this to others. I may have labels like many others but that in its self does not me i am not a good parent! Is there anyone else who is having these problems or had them as i am feeling very alone x
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Being a Bipolar mummy
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bodyshopmama · 27/10/2013 20:23
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