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Mumsnet Discussions: Birth announcements : Mrs Mattie's Birth Story (47 messages)
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Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsMattie on Sun 16-Nov-08 17:44:08
I've just got home from hospital this afternoon and I'm still at the complete and utter 'gushing with love' stage, so forgive me if this comes out all garbled.

Baby was due on the 28th Nov. I had hoped for a VBAC this time (after a long, distressing failed induction ending in c-section last time) and had done loads of research / battling with various consultants to get it all agreed beforehand.

Major spanner in the works when I developed obstetric cholestasis a fortnight ago and was told it would be safest for me to have a c-section. Was booked in for a section on the 21st. Then the test results for my liver function came back quite dramatically worse within a few days and the section was brought forward to the 17th.

Went into hospital for a couple of tests on Thursday afternoon and was told they wanted to keep me in overnight and deliver my baby on Friday! Big panic as DH rushed to pack my bag, borrow a car (ours broke down a few days ago...how very timely!) and arrange for my mum to look after our 3 yr old DS.

Spent a surreal night not really believing that I was really going to meet my baby so soon.

At 1.03pm on Friday 14th November, in what must have been the nicest operation ever (how could a c-section be so lovely? My mind is still boggling!), our beautiful second child was born. Nothing like my previous section. The whole experience was just a joyous and wonderful thing. I was completely unprepared for how amazing it would be at the moment I saw my new baby. They lowered the screen at the moment our baby was born and there, flooded in light and peachy perfect, I saw that I had a ...DAUGHTER!

Bella is a beauty. At 7lbs, she is 3 lbs lighter than my son was and tiny in comparison. I have that 'rush of love' people talk about, and I just keep staring at her and feeling completely choked with emotion. She is just perfect.

I have to thank all the staff at UCH who were utterly amazing and made my birth experience from start to finish wonderful.

After a wobbly day yesterday (very low blood pressure, fainting fits, needing morphine for the pain) I am feeling great today and have been allowed home. I'm typing this with one eye on Bella sleeping peacefully in her Moses basket. Life doesn't get any better. grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By dizzydixies on Sun 16-Nov-08 17:45:08
oh lovely lovely news, great name well done and congratulations grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By MrsMattie on Sun 16-Nov-08 17:45:19
Forgot to say - Bella was born on her daddy's birthday! he is still smiling from ear to ear, the big loon.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By lulumama on Sun 16-Nov-08 17:46:20
how gorgeous ! welcome to bella, and am really glad you had an uplifting and positive birth experience.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By SlubberOverTheYardArm on Sun 16-Nov-08 17:52:04
aw, congratulations. Lovely birth story MrsMattie, and a lovely name too smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By FeelingLucky on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:38:38
Congratulations MrsMattie.
Gorgeous name, Bella smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By strawberrycornetto on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:48:24
Congratulations, glad to hear you had a happy ending to the OC horror! Really brings it back for me, after my first OC pregnancy, my gorgeous early November daughter is also Bella. She's now 4 and I still feel a rush of love. Enjoy her!!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By policywonk on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:50:11
Aww, what a lovely post. And a fab name. Very happy for you all. grin
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Hulababy on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:50:46
Congratulations!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By PeachyAndTheSucklingBas on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:54:39
pachy perfect- what a nice phrase wink lol

that sounds like an amazing birth, well done to you and your team and welcome to bella, great name.

May the love gush continue grin
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By HappyandEiknowit on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:54:57
what a lovely birth experiencesmile
congrats mrsmattie and welcome little bellagrin
xx ei xx
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By PottyCock on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:55:45
congratulations family mattie! smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Fiveplusbump on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:55:46
Congratulations I love her name ,you sound very happy
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By pointydog on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:57:53
ahhhh! congrats
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By DANCESwithLordPottingtonSmythe on Sun 16-Nov-08 20:58:19
Oh Mrs Mattie what a wonderful birth story and many, many congratulations on the arrival of the scrumptious Bella!
It's great to hear a lovely c-section birth story too, my ds was born by planned section (after emergency section with my dd) and it was fantastic.smile
Congratulations again!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By hoxtonchick on Sun 16-Nov-08 21:00:12
oh lovely . many congratulations!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By AuraofDora on Sun 16-Nov-08 21:00:40
aw, luverly
congratulations smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By PuzzleRocks on Sun 16-Nov-08 21:01:27
How lovely that DH and DD share a birthday. Many congratulations.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By HoochieMommaFeelGood on Sun 16-Nov-08 21:04:05
Congratulations on your peachy new angel

It's great to have a positive, and yes - even joyous section - mine for my twins was lovely, too

Wishing a lifetime of health, peace and love to your newly 7lb heavier family!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By LackaDAISYcal on Sun 16-Nov-08 21:05:36
Congratulations MrsMattie grin and welcome to Bella. A lovely name smile

Sorry you didn't get your VBAC, but I'm glad that your CS was a positive experience. I felt that way about my second, elective, section smile

and hey, there's always the option of a VBA2C wink
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By TheMadHouse on Sun 16-Nov-08 21:09:01
Congratulations and welcome to the world Bella
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By jabberwocky on Sun 16-Nov-08 21:11:51
That is just wonderful I am so happy for you and your lovely daughter Bella.
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Lukesmammy on Sun 16-Nov-08 21:16:36
Fantastic! Many congratulations! I had a not so great birth experience first time around and I love hearing stories like yours!

Loving the name too

xxx
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By ILikeToMoveItMoveIt on Mon 17-Nov-08 10:36:29
Welcome to the world Bella smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By CatIsSleepy on Mon 17-Nov-08 10:38:24
awwwwww that's lovely. Big congrats to you MrsM and welcome Bella.
Enjoy your babymoon! smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ABloke on Mon 17-Nov-08 10:38:45
I love a good birth story.

Well done!!!!!

Oh and she shares a birthday with some very special people.

smile

Ah such bliss to see a nice thread. Welcome baby Bella. (lovely name)
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By elkiedee on Mon 17-Nov-08 10:39:20
Congratulations Mrs M. Glad you found it a positive experience overall.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Boco on Mon 17-Nov-08 10:41:57
Aww how lovely! Congratulations x
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By francagoestohollywood on Mon 17-Nov-08 14:32:02
Oh congratulations MrsMattie, how lovely smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By kayzisexpecting on Tue 18-Nov-08 17:51:36
Congratulations!!!

A lovely story and Bella is a gorgeous name!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By poisondwarf on Tue 18-Nov-08 18:03:26
Congratulations MrsMattie!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Countingthegreyhairs on Tue 18-Nov-08 18:06:56
have just seen this

Congratulations! So lovely to hear .... [misty-eyed emoticon
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By JennysMummy on Tue 18-Nov-08 18:24:04
Congratulations!! She has a beautiful name, & it's sweet how she shares her birthday with her daddy!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Kathyis6incheshigh on Tue 18-Nov-08 18:26:35
Ah how lovely - congratulations! smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By sweetkitty on Tue 18-Nov-08 18:28:56
Congratulations so glad you had a lovely experience this time smile
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By ilovemydog on Tue 18-Nov-08 18:37:26
and good to hear a positive c section story smile well done to Bella!
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By prada on Tue 18-Nov-08 18:53:04
oh my goodness honey, how wonderful and exciting news, huge CONGRATULATIONS to you!!! i am sooo happy for you that everything went well!!

bizarrely enough, we would have met at UCH on friday as that is where i am booked in!! great to hear they were fab there!

i was actually at UCH last friday night when you were there as i had a bit of a fall... all okay tho! phew...

take care of you and welcome to the world bella!

x

p.s. you wouldn't be living in north london too??
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By EffiePerine on Tue 18-Nov-08 19:35:40
Congratulations
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By RubySlippers on Tue 18-Nov-08 19:38:36
awwwwwwwwwwww - gorgeous name!

congratulations smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By Verso on Tue 18-Nov-08 20:49:01
Congratulations MrsMattie!
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By hiccymapops on Tue 18-Nov-08 20:51:45
Congratulations MrsMattie smile Bella's a beautiful name smile Hope you're all well xx
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By fairylights on Tue 18-Nov-08 20:57:09
what a lovely lovely story! congrats and welcome Bella smile
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By cupsoftea on Tue 18-Nov-08 20:59:21
Many congratulations xxx
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Miarey on Tue 18-Nov-08 22:49:07
Congratulations! That's great. So pleased all went well.
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By mrsruffallo on Tue 18-Nov-08 22:57:50
I have tears in my eyes reading this
Well done mrs mattie and welcome to the world little bella
Contact the poster See this person's profile Contact mumsnet about this post By lauraloola on Wed 19-Nov-08 09:11:54
Congratulations to you and MrMattie. Bella is a lovely name x
Contact the poster Contact mumsnet about this post By Twiga on Mon 24-Nov-08 16:15:58
Many congratulations, great to hear things went so well. Enjoy these early days, so special.

Need to catch up properly but guessing you must be the first of the dec bunch to have their wee un, means the rest of us are a step closer - very exciting!


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