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Fab news about the weight loss and toning up Kitey! Well done! Hope you are feeling ok. I'm doing Shred 2 and starting to find it a bit easier - I have a lot of weight to lose too but finding the effects of the Shred are v motivating - great feeling when DH comments that I look a lot more toned.