DP's darling gran passed away suddenly on Monday night, she was very close to our kids 14, 5 and 11 mths - particularly 5yr old dd, very very close.
We saw her a lot and infact just last Sunday we were with her.
Now dd has been ok as she obviously cannot truly understand death and she is just now starting to feel a quiet sadness.
PIL have said there will be open coffin, I had this when my dad died but I was 20 then and I found it very important to say goodbye and to see him again.
Am not sure what to do about the kids though?
Obv ds1 is 14, he can make his own choices, but dd might well want to write a letter or draw a picture to send with her nanan, but am unsure as to how I feel about her monstly worrying about her reaction.
Has anyone any experience of a child this age seeing a loved one in an open coffin
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Has anyone experience or advice on open coffins and children? Sorry if anyone finds this upsetting
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Piffle · 21/02/2008 11:11
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