Firstly thank you so much to all of you who sent me little thing to try to help me through Christmas, it still means so much to me that I have friends on mn who care.
I am sorry I haven't posted for ages but I really haven't felt up to it - have been in a bit of a pit and have been struggling to pull myself out of it really, tbh if I didn't have the dc's I think I might be with Craig right now ..... Where do I start? My Christmas was hossible but I didn't let it spoil ds's excitment, I thought he was going to burst - it's the first year he has really "got" it and he did in a big way, we spent 2 days at my mums and my nan has an annex there, so I was able to take myself off into there when things got a bit much for me, we came home boxing day and I was frantically trying to arrange something to do New Years Eve (I think I mentioned on previous thread that all rl friends had thigs planned) - I did go out with my old next door neighbour but fell to pieces at 12am ... 45 mins later could still not pull myself together so came home I was worse than at Christmas but I think it was because NYE is always more of an adult thing. Enough about all of this - opinions please ..... PIL have not seen the dc's since before Christmas (a while before) and have not sent them a card or any pressies, that is not the issue really I just want the dc's to see them. I have called a few times and MIL said they were having trouble with their car and that if I wanted the gifts I would have to go to them and as dd had a cold they didn't want to see us until she was better - I have just found out that they have been up here visiting BIL's girlfriend who is in hospital with sickness bug .... The hospital is on the same road as our house just 15 mins further on .... She didn't want to see us because dd has a cold but can visit a hospital ffs and the car is obviously not that bad. I have not said anything but am really and I know that Craig would be livid - advice on what to do next please? Sorry for mammoth post.
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Sorry to all those who have been sooo good to me for not posting - but this is the first time I have felt strong enough to post since before Christmas
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Mummy2TandF · 06/01/2008 20:25
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