I don't know her all that well tbh; she's one of the Mums at dd's weekly singing group and our relationship has never really progressed beyond the pleasant chat over coffee while kids are playing.
Her dh was killed in a road accident about 2 weeks ago (I found out by reading it in local paper). I sent a card last week and enclosed a note saying if there was anything I could do etc to get in touch. I didn't expect to hear yet, cos the funeral was only on last Friday, but I feel very keen that she knows my words were true, not just glib things people say in such cards.
I thought I'd leave it another week, then send a text suggesting a coffee. If no response, it's her ds's 2nd birthday in Nov so will send a present, and if no response again, wil leave it.
What do people think?
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