Can I Ask For Some Hugs?

[JARM]

I know its not really the MN thing, but some virtual hugs would really help right now.

Its 3 years today since my mum died at the age of 48. I miss her so much, Jessica was exactly 2 weeks old when she died and so has never "known" her Grandma.

We have spent the day at the beach with my dad, and it was lovely, but we are all just needing hugs.

TIA x

[cazzybabs]

I dread losing my mum. I am glad you had a nice day at the beach, and big hugs to you, the bump and your dds

[totaleclipse]

(((((hugs))))) so sorry.

[Fimbo]

Oh Jarm,
Best Wishes (for one heart stopping moment I thought you had lost the baby).

[ledodgy]

Huge hugs from here too. It's 9 years tommorrow since my mum died and I still miss her lots so know exactly how you are feeling.

[lulumama]

big hugs from me

it must still be so painful...i hope that you had a positive day with your dad..

x

[PandaG]

Big hug and prayers from me JARM xxx

[JARM]

back at you ledodgy. its shit. it really is. the tears are starting now, after being able to hold off all day.

i just wish her grandchildren knew her.

[WanderingTrolley]

So sorry JARM.

At least she got to see you a mother, even if Jessica won't remember her, iyswim.

[ledodgy]

That's my biggest regret too my mum never met any of my children and being pregnant with a third without her is even harder. I could tell you it gets better but you will always miss her and miss what you could have shared with her. Try and focus on the happy memories and have a good cry it helps.

[Wheelybug]

Thinking of you...

FIL died a year before we had dd and I know DH often feels very sad that he never met her and she won't know him.

[JARM]

Thank you all. Its nice to know people are "out there"

[hazygirl]

big hugsx