Hi ladies,
I lost my mum when I was 13 to cancer, initially she had breast cancer which spread to a brain tumour. That was 14 years ago and to an extent I've always dealt with things really well. However I'm getting married this year and I'm really starting to miss her, like her death was yesterday. I feel really lonely, even though I have my husband-to-be and others around me, there's a gap and a loneliness that I can't fill. I've never missed her like this and I think it must be something to do with the wedding. Basically I've always been really strong and focused. I lost my dad when I was 8 and then my mum as mentioned at 13, but I've always remained focused and achieved good grades, a good career, worked hard to become a homeowner at a young age etc. I've never really allowed myself to dwell on how much I miss her so I was wondering if anyone in the same situation on here could maybe share their experiences of missing their mum? As I don't think I've ever allowed myself to miss her properly up until now? x
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Lost my mum when I was 13 and getting married this year
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Eire1900 · 10/04/2015 23:02
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