OH and his DGD were close. We went to see him today. He could barely talk, but we could tell he was still in there. He knew he was dying. He's been awake all morning because he was scared to sleep because he knew he wouldn't wake up. He slipped away at 11pm, still awake, still fighting. Sorry, this was meant to be about OH, but I think it's affecting me more than I realised.
OH said to me that he doesn't think he can cope with this.
Things have been tough for the last few months. I've had a massive flare-up of my mental health problems, hit rock bottom (again) about a week ago and I am only just starting to feel stronger.
I'm not sure I'm strong enough to support him through this, but I know I have to be. How do I help him?
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OH's Grandad died today. How can I support him?
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MummySparkle · 22/03/2015 00:59
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