My dear friend lost her husband back in July to suicide. She was obviously devastated and for the first week I barely left her side. Then it was our summer holidays and I had 3 DC at home and had to step back a little. I texted frequently and popped round a couple of times.
After the funeral I was away for the weekend - texted her and she replied saying how she was struggling but knowing I was away, couldn't do much. I was ill when we got back but still available. Then we had another few days away - similar texts saying how hard she was finding it. Phoned her but no answer etc. Just texting.
Went round when we got back but she wouldn't answer the door. Have texted often but she just says she can't see anyone.
It's now been months since I've actually seen her - I miss my friend. Today I have again offered support but it has been turned down.
Is there anything else I can do?? It seemed that she only opened up when she knew I was far away and couldn't help.
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PiggyPlumPie · 27/10/2014 11:54
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