This might be a long one - sorry. Just found out about mumsnet and have seen some of the great advice posted. I wonder if you could give me advice on this. A very close family friend is dying and it seems that he may only have a few days or a couple of weeks left. This friend went to school with my DH and has a child of a similar age to my elder DD. We're currently living away from the area my DH grew up in so my girls have not seen our friend's last, rapid decline. We visit regularly and my girls are very fond of this friend, his partner and their child. My DH and I are wondering how to have a meaningful discussion with our DSs (four and two) when our friend passes away that lets them know what is going on but doesn't scare them silly at the same time. This is the first time since our children were born that someone close has died so we have never had reason to talk about death with them. We're a very open family and don't want to avoid the subject just because it is a difficult and painful one. I appreciate that the two year old may be too young to understand but our four year old will definitely notice when our friend is no longer around. Any advice would be great.
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